Manically Organic & Mindful in May
With a busy life and lots of big changes I became conscious that I hadn’t been very kind to me of late. The thing with self-preservation is that doesn't stop at the self; when we’re kind to ourselves it means we're in a better place to be kind to others. As a philanthropist at heart I realised the recent lack of self-preservation quite simply wouldn't do. In addition to being Mindful in May I’ve decided that I’m going #manicallyorganic.
I’ve heard all sorts of arguments for and against choosing organic. But with a penchant for burning the candle from all directions and as a life member of #insomniaclub I'm up for anything that supports improved health and happiness. Surely if it means putting fewer chemicals in and around our bods it can't be a bad thing. So from the month of May I’m aiming to be #manicallyorganic and deliver it to you via a tweet or two.
Feel free to join in or share your fave little organic place or product below.
With love, LittleMissMelbourne xoxo
Swings and Roundabouts
Little Miss Melbourne xoxo
'All Men Are Liars' Part II
This avoidance may not involve lying per se, but perhaps be more a case of simply omitting particular details from the truth. Of course, if it means staying clear of a clash or another emotionally exhausting, hour-long discussion, why wouldn't you? Enter the pragmatic workings of a man's mind which is, ironically, what I think is so wonderful about the majority of men.
The issue is of course that women don't typically work this way. We like to discuss, explore, be open – and we want you to be involved, to listen and contribute – possibly even argue about it, dammit! But at the end of the day, if men gave us this every time, we may very quickly implode through discussing every heart-felt emotion in crazy, intricate detail.
Likewise, I'm sure if women were as straight forward, simple and opinion-free as some men may prefer us to be, it would very soon get incredibly boring; no one to rescue, no situation to avoid, no reason to put man-think into action.
Perhaps therein lies clarity to a male friend's absurd allegation that all women are evil – women are not evil, we are just units of boundless thoughts and emotions which may, from time to time, result in actions or words that could be perceived as evil (and sometimes much deserved).
But really it’s usually just our way of dealing with a situation; a situation which you guys have cleverly (and wisely) escaped from to meet a mate for a long boozy lunch – which you never lied about…you just simply failed to mention... ;)
Evilly yours,
Little Miss Melbourne xoxo
'All Men Are Liars'
What to do with a case of the blues
The small matter of settling down
There is certainly merit in having the good old five year plan. As repeated to death as it may be, the fact of the matter is that having goals, ambitions and aspirations really does work. For some of the more commitment phobic amongst us, having just a 12 month vision to work to can be incredibly useful. Whatever it is you wish to fulfill, you can still have a magnitude of things to accomplish without the need to ‘settle down’ in one place. So then maybe the notion of settling down is a subconscious plan which many of us feel obliged to reach in order to have some kind of fulfillment, or to consider ourselves a success.
Argument could prevail that a fear of settling down might have some kind of psychological background supposedly connected to a bad childhood or divorced parents. As far as LittleMiss is concerned, the concept of settling down is quite simply someone else’s vision. A vision that is not about her, her very conservative upbringing or her still very married parents. Rather, LMM has many things she wants to achieve all as part of her own plan – none of it which requires settling down in one location. If love happens along the way, it will still be beautiful.
Next time you’re on a date and the topic of settling down comes up, try asking the same question back. It could be more insightful than you think.
Yours, LMM. xoxo
Freedom - Carb Free
Alright my darlings, tonight I'd thought I'd share with you my experience thus far on a two week carb detox oh so kindly suggested by personal trainer. After one week I am going to be overdramatic and suggest that I think it might've changed my life. So if you're looking to try a new diet after starting to clutch at straws like I have been - have a read.
As a person with a sensitivity to wheat and host to insulin resistance I generally keep clear of the carb laden foods like pasta, bread, pastry, potatoes, etc. That is that I should have been keeping clear of these things. Pasta has never been so bad because it is so heavy that I've always just avoided it and don't miss it one tiny bit. But it turns out that the lures of beautifully toasted bread, perfectly baked pastry and anything that is warm and goes crunch in general (and is not a vegetable) has kept me going back for more.
I didn't realise just how much until my first day or so into this carb detox diet idea. I'd developed a habit of taking crackers to work with my salad (but points for the salad, right?) just to satiate that crunch desire for something more substantial than rabbit food. This led to another habit of having more with vegemite when I got home, or maybe with cheese after dinner. Then I'd started having toast again with soup or eating the sour dough that would come with Saturday's breakfast out and all of a sudden I was ordering porridge and muesli at said breakfast outings while feeling pretty good about my choice.
Well let me just say that it turns out that for me, and my body, this wasn't such the best choice after all. I discovered after a bit of research that carbs (even 'good' ones) are all just a form of sugar which is one thing that I consciously go out of my way to avoid (I am one of those people that stand there for ages in the shopping aisle reading the nutrition content of food...). So what I thought was my healthy breakfast most probably wasn't doing me any favours at all.
I should point out that all of this effort (the PT, the diets, argh!) surrounds trying to lose that infamous 5kg that almost everyone seems to gain but can't get rid of. I'm now one week into my carb detox and I feel fantastic. I've lost a little bit of weight (nothing dramatic but I 'feel' lighter), my tummy is flat, and I don't have any naughty cravings - plus, I don't feel like I've been deprived for food at all. More importantly, my blood sugar levels feel like they've sorted themselves out, meaning I only feel like eating when I'm hungry and when I eat, I enjoy, but when I'm full, I'm full. HALLELUJAH. After a two year battle with wondering what the hell is going on with my body I think I finally have some kind of resolution.
Now, LittleMiss is not suggesting that this is a one size fits all solution. My PT even declared that she tends to lose weight on a HIGH carb diet - so everyone is different. But if you are someone who has difficult and unstable blood sugar levels (insulin resistance, polycystic ovaries, diabetes) or you have a sensitivity to gluten/wheat and it makes you feel sluggish then maybe a low carb diet could be for you too.
A few things I thought I'd add and clear up. Yup, carbs are in vegies. But the way that I see it is that vegies are alright because of their high fibre and nutrient content - so long as you keep away from the starchy carbs like potatoes then you're probably fine. So I've been eating plenty of green leafy vegies, favouring the ones categorised as 'negative calorie' - food that takes more energy to digest than they contain - yippee! It's the sugar dense carbs like fruit that you want to watch a little.
If you love your fruit eat it with some protein and/or fat to keep the blood sugar in check, like an apple with cheese or a handful of nuts. Lastly, in my first few days of carb free I was craving minced meat like I never have before (if I ever have before...). My PT advised that I most likely wasn't getting enough fat in my diet. So don't forget your healthy fats too if you get the same - avocado, olive oil, coconut oil, salmon, etc. I'm a big believer that if you're craving something then there's usually a reason; your body is trying to tell you something. When it comes to carbs, the more I was eating, the more I wanted. But it also turns out that the less carbs I have, the less I want. So maybe this was the prank my body has been playing on me. Who knows. I do know that I feel great and I feel light - and I am eating amazing food while I do it. Heaven!
Little Miss Melbourne xoxo